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writes:Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my friends because they know he likes me and one of them is going into a bit of a depressed stage because of it.. She was the one that talked about him so highly, she really liked him. I don't know what to do, I don't want to hurt my friends but they say they don't care it's my choice, and that it won't effect our friendship. Help please..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 January 2017):
 Look you need to make a choice here and decide what is more important, your friendship with these girls or having a relationship with this boy. They might say it won't effect your friendship but it will because they will get jealous and they will hate to see you with him. Therefore if you want to keep your friends you need to stay away from this guy.
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reader, Slippers  +, writes (5 January 2017):
I agree with the fatherly advice .. you do not .. do not stand on anyone toes for a guy no matter how much you think you like home it isn't done and being honest even though they say this won't effect your friendship they are lying .. it will .
Be sweet and just say what fatherly advice put .. As boys will come and go but friendship should last forever .
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (5 January 2017):
 Honestly, this is a case where the Girls code points the way to happiness and safety. Never date a boy your friends have dated, or are crushing on. They are being very nice to you but there is hidden pain in them. Let this one go. Tell the boy you think he is a great guy but It just won't work with you.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (5 January 2017):
 It will ruin your friendship because that's what happens when teenagers get in relationships. It's too much for most to handle, let alone all of you having crushes on the same boy.
Save dating for when you're a little older and don't have friends who like the same guy as you :)
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