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writes:I have known this girl for a while and we held hands after her friend died once, and I kind of like her, but I'm getting mixed signals. One minutes she hugs me nd stuff than she talks about this guy she likes. Is she just someone that like being close to people. sometimes we hold hands and hug and she talks to me like she likes me but then she talks about her boyfriends and this guys she likes plus shes three years older. Should I say that she likes me and go with it or draw a line cause she likes someone else? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): She could just be holding your hand and stuff because she knows she can etc but thats not fair on you so you need to stop all that then she will feel like she couldnt have you so easily and realise she needs to work to be closer to you and so treat you better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): She might be bringing up other guys to try to make you jealous and see how you respond. Or she might just think of you as a close friend and not realize you see her as more. You need to decide if you want to truly be with her or if you are happy being her friend. If you want to have a future with her and a relationship, you need to tell her how you feel and see how she responds. If you want to just remain friends and not worry about complicating the relationship you already have, then try to move on and look for someone else who will always put you first. I would suggest you just try flirting with her a bit more and see how she responds. Try to get closer and show her you want more than just friendship and if she gets turned away by that and really does have feelings for someone else, then just be her good friend and move on.
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