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writes:my best friend had sex with her boyfriend but then he was hitting on me and we went back to his place and we were having sex and my best friend walked in whilst we were having sex and shes made at me and her boyfriend.I didn't for it to happen and I need advice. HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): You realise sex at your age is a criminal act right? If the cops were to find out, there would far more dire consequences then the loss of a friendship.You have issue waiting until you are 16 to have sex? I hope you see now why it is under 16's and sex should stay five hundred metres from each other at all times.If you are not mature enough to know how to turn sex down when it is offered to you in a circumstance like this, then you are not mature enough for the act at all.If your friend disowns you, I don't blame her..Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): I find you extremely hilarious. Honestly, what did you expect? You then conclude by saying that you didn't mean for it to happen. And yet you followed him home and had sex with him. Either you are severely impaired in the head department or you clearly do not give a damn about your friend. She is right to detest you. Hell I wouldn't even call you my friend if I was in her shoes. Look at this way: you were more closer to her than her boyfriend was to her. This behaviour is expected of most men, but of a friend? I don't know. Well you're still young anyways. Hopefully this will teach you to not interfere in the personal lives of others. Especially if those lives concern close friends.On a lighter note, an apology will not cut it. I wouldn't be surprised if she refuses to take you back. What you did is a serious breach of trust. Lovers exist in boatloads while friends are as rare as being struck by lightning and surviving to tell the tale.Get the point?Learn from your mistakes! And in the unfortunate event that a future boyfriend of a future friend hits on you, speak up! By doing nothing you are encouraging the behaviour.
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reader, iLuSioNz +, writes (29 March 2011):
That's pretty bad, but I've seen the same thing happen to my best friend and a friend of hers. The guy she was seeing ended up sleeping with a friend of hers and I'm not gonna lie - she hit the roof. You can't do anything about it, you took something from her; now you have a choice - pick her or this guy, and if you pick her then you need to stay well away from this guy because he could be the reason you end up losing your best friend. Your friend is someone who is supposed to be able to trust you, I can tell you now - even if you don't want to hear it - she probably won't trust you around her boyfriends again - all you need to do is let her get her mind around it and then she'll ask you why you did it, how you two ended up like that and why you thought it was acceptable to do it. You need to have honest answers for those questions; 'I don't know', doesn't cut it. Honesty - in this case - is the best policy.
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