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30-35,
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writes:Ok basically, about a week ago I went on a school trip with the music department to New York, and me and a girl ive known for years got quite close. Throughout the 1st few days we were holding hands alot and were hugging alot, but neither of us wanted to get together particually, then towards the end of the school trip we began kissing and meeting, but still we didnt want to get together. But when I got home, and was looking back on the holiday, she was a big part of it, and thinking about it I really do like her a lot. So I asked her where we were gonna go from now, and she replied 'I didnt think you wanted a realationship and I dont particually want one...', I accepted this as her decision but I REALLY do miss her, I wanna get together so bad, we see eachother every day in school and when im around her I feel amazing, but when im not around her I feel depressed and lonely. I cant sleep at night and I feel im going to cry when I think back on the holiday, I havent had a girlfriend in 3-4 years and she made me feel more special than anyone ever has before, someone give me advice on how to win her back or at least get over her and move on, this is killing me, im depressed every night when I get home from school, my attitude and personality has definately changed... please help ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): wait...you havent had a gf in 3 or 4 years? And your age shows you to be 13 or 14. sigh....look, why dont you write her a letter stating the enjoyment that you felt when you were together,how she made you feel and telling how much you enjoyed her company, and send it to her. Tell her that you are interested in continuing a relationship and seeing where it goes from here. Tell her that you would like to know her feelings on the subject and that you really think that she is a terrific person to be around...good luck sweetie, mal
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