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Abnormal discharge

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Question - (3 November 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *urplewasabi writes:

I'm almost seventeen, and I began my periods when I turned about thirteen. I think it was a few months before my first period came that I noticed the discharge from my vagina. Though I care for my mother, I didn't and still do not feel comfortable talking to her about this sort of thing, and still haven't.

I still have this discharge - and it's not normal. I know occasional discharge is, but what I have is very frequent. I always have to have something like a slip of tissue or a mini tampon down there, I often prefer tampons even when I'm not on my period, simply because I don't have to deal with feeling the discharge, smelling it, or cleaning it; let alone hiding it from all of my underpants.

I've tried looking up similar cases on the internet but haven't really found anything that fits my question.

It's a huge hindrance in my life, and has been for many years now. I've had relationships (guys and girls) and while I'm happy to do sexual things to them, I've never let a hand down my pants, I'm just far too insecure about this problem. I'm also a virgin, which I'm happy with, but do feel I wouldn't be if I did not have this issue. I think this whole thing ruined my last relationship as my boyfriend began feeling insecure himself as a result of my refusals.

I'd just really like some helpful advice on what to do; I do not want to be stuck with this anymore and really don't want it to ruin another relationship, or even an attempt at some harmless fun, for me. So thank you to anyone who can help. :)

~ PW

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