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writes: I am a 22 year old man and am single. I am very nervous when I am chatting with a girl and always feel that they are not interested in me at all. I have been to pubs, clubs and so on. I wondar if someone tell me a few techniques to know girls' body language. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2005): I know how you feel, Im exactly the same way and I still have your problem but in trying to work on it Ive found that if you talk about what hobbies you have and stuff, and come up with jokes or random facts, it makes you funny, and girls love funny guys. And don't neccessarily go for gurls in clubs or pubs, try striking up a conversation with someone at work or in a queue at the supermarket or something.
And complement a girl, not being too mushy, but something like, 'hey, can I just say you look really beautiful in that dress'. dont use chat up lines, what ever!
Even though you think a girl isnt interested she probably actually is, just keep talking and make up stuff as you go along, talk about anything and everything! ask stuff about her, like your really interested.
I hope this helps, its coming from a girl after all, lol.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 October 2005):
And you are not nervous talking to men? EVERYONE is nervous talking to other people. You don't know them, they don't know you. So what? How do you get to meet people and get to know them unless you talk to them? Quit ovsessing over things that all people share with you, and are just part of life. The more you talk with a variety of women, the easier it will become. It helps if you have several things to share with people, men or women. Have hobbies. Read, Stay informed. The more you know about a lot of things, the more interesting you will be to talk to.
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