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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am very confused/ puzzled about this guy I like...I met him about a month ago..and we get along great..I am a little naive about how men give signals ,ive only had one boyfriend but I would say I am very mature, he is fun and youthful and a great person..he is older than me.but the age difference doesn't bother me at all.The thing is we talk every night, we send each other pictures, and it seems he always wants to hang out with me,but he hasn't been straight out saying "I like you"...he has sent some signals but I don't want to misinterpret them he is a very friendly guy...but I don't think I show back that I like him too..well one day he dicided to flirt with another girl and it made me sad...I didn't overreact but I did look sad.I don't know if he did this in order to see if I got jealous ? Because later on that night he was so happy with me..and he seemed to wanna talk with me more..he talks to me everyday...does he like me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Men make moves not give signals, you're the woman you have to show him you're interested so he can make a move. If you like him then start flirting with him a bit, show him you're interested.
Seriously guys that give signals don't get much success with women because they get bored and/or get moved on by another guy, so it's a waste of time for us. Well most of guys anyway.
Stop trying to figure out whether he likes you or not through reading his signs and just get on with showing him you're interested, he's obviously well able to flirt but if he thinks you're not interested then why would he bother?
Seriously you won't accomplish anything by sitting there trying to figure him out. It's up to you to give him the signals not the other way around.
Seriously just like the guys who make no moves, the girls that sit back trying to figure out guys lose out, because that guy will move on pretty quickly if he doesn't see any signs of interest from you.
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