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*2d2651
writes:I am 14 a freshman in highschool and there's this girl I really like. But this was only since yesterday. Up until then she was just a "sorta friend" I didn't even really find her attractive. That night at the skating rink, somehow during a "side-hug" while we were both sitting on a bench, I managed to get my arm around her and keep it there..The rest of the night we did that on and off. Sometimes her legs were resting on mine as she had her back to the wall and sometimes we just sat down together with my arm around her..It was an instant unexplainable love.. For me... So strong that it has eliminated the desire for another girl that I had had for months. The other girl became nothing to me..She seemed a little upset through the ENTIRE night so I asked her what was wrong several billion times, she decided to tell me.She said that she randomly hates herself sometimes and doesn't know why, she's bipolar, her parents are shit etc..Even with all this I STILL couldn't help but find that she drove me crazy..She wasn't at all embarrassed to have anyone else see her and I so close.Also, later that night there was a small group together, this included her and I. Someone obnoxiously said "Hey you like him?" She says.. and this is an exact quote.."I like him as a friend. Because we're friends"CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME READ THIS GIRL??? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 January 2011):
 No, it's not a date unless someone says it is. In this case her. All it is, is friends hanging out and going to the movies.
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reader, r2d2651 +, writes (3 January 2011):
r2d2651 is verified as being by the original poster of the question MAJOR UPDATE: So tonight we were texting and after some social foreplay (Clever huh?) she finally admitted that she had been thinking about me and couldn't sleep I said I felt the same way (because I do) after some more chat I asked her out. she relies "im not dating right now because of drama but I love spending time with you :)". I took it.. thought.. and said.. "well would you want to spend some more time together?" she said yes.. i suggested a walk. she suggested a movie..
chances are, we're going to see a movie together this weekend. isnt that a date?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): I think she likes you. First off u guys were in a group and she might have been shy saying it. Also she probly did want to say she liked u infront of the group then them ask you and you if u like her and you say u don't. Very embaressing for her. I deffinetly think she likes you, just try to spend more time with her and see if she agrees and wants to. Or just ask her lol. GL dude
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 January 2011):
A side hug? How awkward.
Well sweetie girls mean what they say even at that age. She likes you as a friend and sees you as a friend. Throughout your date, I could tell she was slightly nervous and sounded like she has a lot of issues at hand. What she needs right now is a friend, not a boyfriend.
She has a few personal, serious issues she needs to deal with and cope in her own way before she can get involved in a relationship. In other words, she is aware she's not ready for a relationship and doesn't want one. Sorry dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): I think she likes you more as a friend but since you kinda made the first move i think it all happened so fast that she didnt want to admit anything was going on. But if im wrong and she only likes you as a friend i think she might be getting herself emotionally ready for you two to be something more than just friends.
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