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writes: Come on ladies, how do I tell if a lass at work fancies me, signs, don't say just ask her because I have been wrong in the past, what signs can I look for.Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): I think you should tell her,he who dares wins,no pain no gain,just a moment of courage and if she doesn't fancy you youv'e not wasted time and energy thinking whether she does.No good putting it off to long you might never find the right time to ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): im in the same sitch...i have been the nervous and kinda geeky type all my life.
she talks to me and seems to always want me to sit next to her in college.
she seems to like me alot and laugh at my jokes.
im the gentlemanly type who brings the womans needs before my own.
but im not sure if she likes me for that or for me
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): damn man...some of you guys just are clueless...I admit I was probably clueless in my early twenties...but, if you open up your eyes..the signs are obvious. As much as it might seem like like a woman just wants to be your friend, this is rarely true. They try to play stupid and guard the fact that they like you because women don't want to let on that they like because until they are sure that you feel the same way. Some of you guys have to look at the signals women give out, those being either verbal or physical. So wake up guys..women are not that complicated. We just take it too extremes like saying men are from mars and women from venus...gimme a break...both sexes are here on earth for one thing...sex. It's natural. Not that complicated. So, guys stop being so wishy washy and go get her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007): Ive had the same problem , I was always with people fro mwork who i knew fancied me because my mate told me he knew they did , so getting a girlfriend wasnt hard , but now after the last i promiced ill be single for ages but 2 months down the line ive meet this girl,Were just mates as ive only known her a week , but already i find myself wanting to be with her , i get goosebumbs butterflys (you get the picture) , Shes only lived in my town for 2 weeks so dosnt know anyone ,but we get on so well.
Now that my mate has gone (who used to do my work for me) Ive got to do it for myself ONE PROBLEM............................ This girl has a boyfriend who has just gone to prison for 3 1/2 years . she says she'll wait for him , shes only been with him for 6 months.So is waiting easy.
I need help shes Hot , Kind, and rocks my world already.
Any suggestions as i dont want to make her feel uncomfatable with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): If she really likes you, she'll go out of her way to find out about your likes, dislikes and your life in general. She'll also try to relate to you in any way possible. If she's outgoing, she'll probably smile at you and say hello whenever she gets a chance. But, if she's shy, she may only glance at you every once in a while and wait for you to speak to her. My advice to you is to get her alone and tell her that you don't want to make her uncomfortable at all, but you have feelings for her. If she feels the same, then that's great! If she doesn't feel the same way, maintain a positive tone and say that you'd still like to be friends with her. If she's a nice person, you shouldn't have any problems continuing with a friendship. After all, everyone goes through this mess at one point or another (does he/she like me or not?? etc. etc). So, good luck!............................................................................................................................................................................Rite i just want to ask a question. There is this lass who is my x girlfriends Best mate and i find her attractive. I was round there tonight and like this messege says she was smileing at me and kept giving me a glampse up and down she does this every time i go round as soon as she see's me i get a big smile and a sweet hello. What you reckon? i reckon she has a bf tho... and a baby on the way tell me what to do.. her boyfriend is a puff aswell he cnt fight for shite... reply asap
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): If she really likes you, she'll go out of her way to find out about your likes, dislikes and your life in general. She'll also try to relate to you in any way possible. If she's outgoing, she'll probably smile at you and say hello whenever she gets a chance. But, if she's shy, she may only glance at you every once in a while and wait for you to speak to her. My advice to you is to get her alone and tell her that you don't want to make her uncomfortable at all, but you have feelings for her. If she feels the same, then that's great! If she doesn't feel the same way, maintain a positive tone and say that you'd still like to be friends with her. If she's a nice person, you shouldn't have any problems continuing with a friendship. After all, everyone goes through this mess at one point or another (does he/she like me or not?? etc. etc). So, good luck!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (1 December 2005):
Ditch what everyone else has said (no offence) but you just can't tell if someone likes you by what they do, or don't do. Everyone (man and woman) are different. Some are shy, some are outgoing, there for some will more liekly give 'hints' and some might not. And even if she isn't a shy type person, she may not realise your interested and be so hung up about you finding out she likes you so she goes over the top to hide it. Honestly, what have you go to loose by asking her out? Just say hey do you wanna go to the movies this weekend? And if she accepts then she probably does like you! Im taking that since you said dont suggest to just ask her because you have been wrong in the past means that you havent dealt well with rejection? I know its harsh and very very hurtful, but its a risk we must all take to GAIN in life. All GOOD things in life don't come easy. They take courage, determiantion and bravey. So take a chance, if worse comes to worse and she not interested, she will admire you for being brave enough to ask and probably take it as a compliment that you were interested. No decent person would reject you in a harsh way, now would they? Afterall its not like your in the schooglround anymore.good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): Hi their the obvious signs to see if she like u r she will always be flirting wiv u and if u ever look her way she will always smile and if you join a convo wiv her she will always talk 2 u. do u fancy dis girl coz if u do ask her out!wot av u got to loose?is she popularand as she ever had a bf beforeif she has ask him how he new to ask her outhope i av helpedxxx
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reader, chris1612 +, writes (30 November 2005):
i am in the same boat as you pal GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): All women give out different signs that they like you .. from getting all shy around you to playfully flirting or teasing you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): you can talk to her ask her be friendly make out you fancy her see if she reactes
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