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Help me, I'm in love with my friend, but I messed it up?

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Question - (2 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've liked this guy for about a month or two now. At first I tried to surpress my feelings but his name kept cropping up everywhere I looked. So I admitted to myself that I liked him. We'd just started to become friends at that time and we walked home together sometimes too.

Then my friend asked me if I'd liked him and said she'd seen the signs. She was good friends with him too. I couldn't belive that she'd guessed!

Other people, not just my friends had guessed too, and started questioning me.

But then somehow, one of my crush's good friends came and asked me. I didn't really know him that well, but he said would me and the guy I liked like to get together. I said no, politly, because I guessed that he was just winding me up, but then my crush came along and smiled at me and I said, foolishly,

'Really?'

And then my crush walked away and all his friends started laughing. I was so embarresed.

Since then he's not been as chatty to me as he was before untill today, I don't know why but today he just seemed really talkative, but most times since the incident he's not been.

He's not the most popular or goodlooking guy in our school but he was really nice.

What do I dooooo????

x

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A female reader, Mels Ireland +, writes (2 February 2009):

Well, Luv, just take a couple of days to observe his behaviour and then try to talk to him about the way you feel but when his mates are not around. Maybe his mates have been teasing him and he feels self conscious when they are around.

He might just want to be friends but then again e might like you. Just one thing: talk to him directly, don't get anybody else to tell him. reported things and getting other ppl involved never get you a good result, I talk because at your age I have been there too.

Good luck!

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