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writes:I'm a 20 year old male who is literally on the verge of a complete breakdown... It started off as this nagging thing in the back of my head but know its all I think about. I'm afraid if I talk to my freinds or family they'll just poke funn and not take me seriously. Every girl I've been intrested in since the 8th grade has turned me down with the same line I like you but like a brother. thats about 15 girls. And countless girls at parties and other things... I hurt so bad and I know it's me but i can't figure it out. I'm 5"11 220lbs and have a 6 and a half inch dick (measured daily since I was 14). F****ed up things is ppl tell me Im an okay lookin guy and funny. Then the girl thing should be easy....but they seem to only want me as their freind...and it breaks my heart. and I just don't know what to do. And I'm tired of ppl telling me to be patient and you'll find the right girl who likes you for you....because i found the girls that like me for me and they won't date me....and i hate myself for obsessing about it but I can't help it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): sorry you are feeling bad. what kind of girls are you going for. have you tried to date online? it's all the rage. there are as many girls as there are boys out there that feel the same way you do. I recommend coming off a little aloof to girls. they like it. don't be the go to guy all the time with them. call them only sporadically and maybe make them wait a little too long. im not telling you to change who you are. im sure you are a kind and generous person. otherwise they would not want to be friends with you or treat you like a brother. i can also attest to the fact that boys continue to grow until 22 or so. I was always amazed when the guys would graduate from school and come back from college looking grown up and sexy. I can also attest to the fact that dating and teenagers these days are a brutal combination. girls are so vapid and self absorbed and all the guys can think about is getting laid. I recommend also to date girls that are older than you. they may be more mature and more interested in you than a teenage party queen. Also look for the shy girls. there are girls out there that would date you . you just have to be alittle more ingenious as to where to find them. also invest in a gym membership. there is nothing a girl likes more than muscles. it will also do wonders for your self esteem and also there are girls there. remember don't seem too interested. leave a little to the imagination. make her chase you. it's not a game. it's how things work. good luck mate. you have your whole life ahead of you. start living.
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