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writes:my boyfriend and myself hav been in long distance relationship for almost 1 yr now.We are great when we are together.He always says he loves me a lot and that he will never break my trust but the problem starts when we are apart.Presently he is doing mba from a very reputed b school and i am all set to pursue job in corporate sector though i am trying my best to prepare for mba entrance exams so that next year i can be with him.I know that i cant make him do anything so please tell me what to do so that not to miss him too much.I want to make myself so strong that I shudnt be affected whether he calls me or not.How do I do that???I want to see his efforts in relationship.I want him 2 miss me and not cheat when i am not around so please tell how to change myself so that i get positive results.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Sounds like you are doing a great job being strong! A one year long distance relationship is not easy. To keep from missing him so much, make sure you keep a good group of friends around you and keep busy. It is important to be social and not cut yourself off from the rest of your surroundings. This seems to happen for a lot of people in long distance relationships.Try not to "pester" him too much by calling every five min etc. Let him know that you like when he calls, emails, texts, etc. A simple message saying that you are thinking of him and would love to talk sometime works wonders. Just be honest and open with each other.
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reader, Sophie-Lou-X  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 It's perfectly normal to miss someone you love if you don't see them very often.
You need to ask yourself something first of all - can you see this relationship lasting if you see so little of each other?
If yes, good for you! I think that shows that you ARE being strong in this relationship, a lot of people couldn't be away from the person they loved. But I think what you really need to do, is not dwell on it. If you're thinking about him 24/7, you're going to cause yourself so much pain. Why not try occupying yourself with something else, such as going out with friends more or finding a hobby? Trust me, it works!
If no, I would say now is probably the time to end it before you cause yourself even more pain.
It's all about how hard you are prepared to work to keep your relationship strong :) x
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