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30-35,
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writes:I have been going out with a guy for a year and a half, but a few months ago i started to fancy another guy, my boyfriends best friend! i thought if i left it my feelings for this other guy would go away but now i think i am in love with him. i think he likes me a lot too, but i know he would never do anything to hurt his best friend (my boyfriend). i dont know if i can stay with my boyfriend when i have such strong feelings for another guy. but i dont want to leave my boyfriend to find the other guy doesnt actually like me and it was just a silly crush anyway and really i loved my boyfriend all along. help me!
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reader, agony_emz +, writes (3 May 2007):
 hi there!!
to be honest i think you should stay well alone from both men involved!! it's hard to be in this situation!!
its not fair on you as you will be constantly in two minds and things will slip which in the end you will get hurt and if your boyfriend finds out that you have strong feelings for his best mate it's guna hurt! and his best mate cant be a very good one of he does have feelings for you like u think! put yourself in his situation!! its guna be hard but at the end of it both of you will be less hurt!!
good luck x
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