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female
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writes:Well how do i start theres this boy and ive known him for about 4 years im only in two of his classes and i really like him and can trust him but.....he has a girlfriend but he still flirts with me non-stop! Why? i dont know if he likes me or not! i really fancy him and want to go out with him but im scared to ask him out because i dont want to be rejected. I try to impress him by wearing a skirt and tryin new things with my hair and he notices them but his girlfriend has only known him for 5 minutes and she isnt anyything special plzzzzzz help me im so love-struck!
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reader, s_princess  +, writes (25 May 2008):
controversary to the repliez before meh, id make sure he likez youh better than his current girl, 1st.
we live in a cold, cold world! sry to say but i dont think ANY woman thinks twice if her chosen candidate has a girl or not. (i myself hasnt stlen anyones bf tho:) ). correct meh if its not like that. (im just stating the truth)
so, if you really really really REALLY like him:), well, um, and he doesnt like his gf so much, then...why not try it? by flirting discretely, being friends with him...
but i guess, making a direct step is too much, you should wait for him to initiate things!
he should be after you, lets say you can sorta...make him enthusiastic by a few things, but it aint work if you jump on him:)
plus, he wouldnt appreciate you at all! pridez important:)
youre still very young, another option is waiting and being always cute.
id wear casual clothes sometimez, too -showing diffy wonderful sidez of you:).
just dont let him kno so directly that you fancy him...itd just get him cocky:)
woah, that was one long answ:)
good luck!!
ps: there are other cute guys all over the place, im sure, so dont concentrate on only 1:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): My current boyfriend was once quite good friends with a girl (lets call her 'A'), who obviously loved him. She never hid this fact, and took every chance she could to get close to him, even though she knew he was going out with me. Don't get me wrong, 'A' was a lovely girl with no bad intentions, she just loved him too much to hold back. This, understandably, hurt me and bothered me a lot.
Cutting a long story short, she attempted to get into his boxers (to say the least) and he stopped her. I found out, and suddenly this nice love-struck girl with a crush on my guy turned into a cold hearted bitch. I knew she wasn't, but in my mind, I couldn't forgive 'A' for blatantly making a pass at my boyfriend. She knew me. We were friends. Needless to say, we're not any longer.
I'd advise that you just stay away from this guy while he's in a relationship honey, because the last thing you need is a reputation as a boyfriend-stealer. I'm sure you're a lovely girl, so stay that way and do your best to keep away from him. Even flirting with him... Imagine how you would feel if you found out your boyfriend was flirting with other girls? He's in a relationship, and he's out of bounds. You're better off just riding this out, and not taking it any further with him honey. Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Don't try to get into a relationship with this guy until his current relationship has ended.
Keep working on your friendship and then when his relationship ends then you'll know you have a good chance.
If you tell him that you like him when he has a girlfriend then things could go horribly wrong and you may loose his friendship.
Good Luck, X.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Hey! I was in a similar situation not too long ago. Him and i were really close, and his girlfriend lived pretty far away. It didnt seem like they were even that close! Anyways, we always had a flirty relationship, but it was still pretty solid. We would talk about our problems and stuff like like that and it seemed t=like he was really into me. One night, we ended up sleeping together. The following days were pretty awkward (on my part at least because i felt guilty) but we did talk it over. It turned out he couldn't leave his girlfriend, and now we barely see eachother anymore. So here's my advise to you, dont try to get involved with him, no matter how hard it is, until he breaks it off with his girlfriend. And remember, it has to be his decision to end it with her, and shouldn't have anything to do with you...Good Luck!
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