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anonymous
writes:I developed a crush on a girl a while ago, Im pretty sure she is into me as well but we are both in longterm relationships. So I have limited contact with her but remained polite with just a hello or a wave.The problem is I am seeing her body movements or face in other people that remind me of her. This is excruciatingly hard to get over her with these constant reminders.I have no doubt if we weren't in relationships, we would be together.Is it normal to see things like this? Am I making the right decision by avoiding her? Or should I be breaking off my relationship?
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reader, kellyO +, writes (5 November 2018):
 Unfortunately she is already in a long term relationship so are you. You need to divert your attention to something else and avoid close interraction with her if possible. You need to take some time to self reflect and find out for your selves whether or not you are happy within your current relationship without thinking about her or anyone other than yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2018): Thanks Nora B. I think I'm happy but if I am feeling this strongly for someone else does that mean I'm not?
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (3 November 2018):
Because you are thinking of her in such dept anything can remind you of her.Yes it is ...Normal...However because she is in a relationship there is nothing you can do on that level..because she may be happy in that relationship However i would ..question the relationship that you are in.Are you happy ?.Why the crush on the other woman ? Think of your relationship.....is there something missing from it..Only you can answer if you should break off this relationship.Regards NORA B.
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