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Help for ex wives of transvestites/cross dressers?

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Question - (2 April 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

Hi

My husband of 30 years told me one day out of the blue that he had been cross dressing since childhood and that now he wanted to become a woman.

Cutting a long story short, we got divorced and now he is happily in another relationship with another woman and probably deceiving her too. (He didn't have the courage to go through with his original idea)

How do I get over the hurt and distress he has caused me and how can I trust again? I've found lots of support articles for men, and wives of cross dressers but nothing to support the women who could not deal with the situation. Can anyone point me in the right direction to appropriate support please?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013):

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thank you. I'll check out the web site and see if they can help

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 April 2013):

Tisha-1 agony auntI don't know if this group will help exes of crossdressers but it certainly helps those who were with transgendered spouses: http://www.straightspouse.org/home.php

I hope you find the comfort you need. You're already making strides towards that by asking for help.

Good luck!

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