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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay this girl keeps not texting but when she does she sends mixed signals like she wants to get to know me and we text mwuah to each other and she thinks I'm sweet which in turn I think she is too. Could it be she is just tided up in doing things and doesn't have the time for me now. I don't want to get my feelings into this cos they hurt and I just am really confused on what she wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): What would you like to happen? Do you want to get to know her more, or spend time with her? If so, then why not try asking her one day? You could send a text and ask if she'd like to get together and do something. Or go somewhere together. I know this may take a lot of courage! But it seems like you two are texting back and forth, without really clearly communicating with each other, if that makes sense. It may need you to be brave and get the ball rolling.
Is there any other way you could have contact with her, other than texting? Texting can be very limited, so would it be possible to speak to her on the phone? Or email each other?
If she continues to be distant though, then I think she may just enjoy having someone to send nice, sweet messages to, and receive them in return. She may not be looking for more than that. So if that is not what you want, if you would like more and it is becoming too painful, then it may be time to think about getting some distance from her, for the sake of your feelings. I hope something here helps, take care. x
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