A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hiya guys and girls,well my problem is that I have this sort of sex problem :SI have good sex but with too many people. I dont mean to sound slutty and i know thats how im coming across but i dont know how to put this in words properly.basically i've recently found out that i can't have children this has affected me a little and i was quite upset about it because even though i never thought about having children yet i always thought i had the option.Well since i have found out i can't have children i feel like im never going to have a stable relationship because most guys want a family aswel, so i have just been having sex with every guy i meet when i go out which is like 4 times a week, i also have lots of sex dudes aswell, and i know this is bad, and i dont think im cool for doing it but i have sort of become obsessed with this sort of life and dont know how to stop myself.:( ? x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 November 2009):
Questions:
Why do YOU think that you do this?
Do you always (or ever) have full orgasms?
Do you not like any guy enough to have a relationship?
Would you rather have a good (monogamous) relationship?
Where do you find the guys with whom you have sex?
Is your reputation the source of your numerous partners?
Whether you answer here or not, this kind of analysis of the issue may help you curtail this rather risky activity. In my opinion, it may eventually have severe mental health affects, if not already, physical health not withstanding. Professional counseling may be advised.
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female
reader, Dizmal +, writes (26 November 2009):
Ok so about the who non- stable relationship you will there is always the option aof adopting and if a guy loves you he'll live with the fact that you can't have kids and you don't sound slutty you sound confused.... you never thaugh about kids but now that you can't have them you don't know who you are anymore I just think you need to think about life a littl bit before you have sex again....
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