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writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years. I am in love with him. The thing is, i dont want to love him any more. I tried to break up with him numerous times but it doesnt work. How do you fall out of love? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK, when we get into arguments he will say things that will hurt me, he's lazy and he gets a check every month and he acts like he satisfied with that, we have a son 2gether and if i want to go out he will act like he doesnt want to watch him, he doesnt want to work, he doesnt know how to have sex and i am just tired but overall he is realy a good person. Is it me being stubborn or should i stay with him?
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reader, jasmin nisar  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 y do u want to fall outta love with some1 who many other people would love to be with? by the sounds of it u wanna break it off with him because u wanna be free 2 do as u please but as u r with some1 u love u cant bring urself to do it while ur with him if this is the case then he souns like hes better off without u. fun n freedom wont last 4 long time gose by so quickly and u will soon realise what u have done and regret ur decision. not every1 in the world is like the man u r lucky enough to of found and u just want to throw him away.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (13 December 2009):
 You've been in a relationship for this long, and you're still in love with him and are still with him. Why do you want to break up? What's wrong? I'm afraid I don't see the problem?
Is he abusive? Drug addicted? Does he cheat? Is he using you? You don't sound like you're just bored of him, because you say you're still in love.
If you have a good reason for wanting to move on, really all I can say is to break up and put in some distance and wait for time to change your heart. But I can't help but wonder why you want to...
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