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*ookiemon77
writes:Hi,I don't know whats going on with my fiance lately. We have not had sex for a while and this past weekend I was trying to start something but nothing happend. Usually during the week we do not do anything because we get home very late. But when the weekend comes we're at it all weekend. But this time he was avoiding me. He would wake up early so that I wouldn't attack him and tried not to be alone with me. And when I though myself at him he said theres time for that later. I wonder if it has anything to do with the last time we made love he came to early and was very upset about it. This has been happening a lot lately. I don't think he has anyone else. But, I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): You need to talk to him about it and let him know that if he comes too early it is ok and you will not put any pressure on him or judge him.
If it keeps happening, get him to see the doctor as there is help available. It's quite common.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Just take things easy for now, and with time u ask him what the problem is, and if he loves u he wil give u reasons
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (22 December 2009):
 If he has been coming too early and is very upset about it, then that could be why he was avoiding you.
However, it's really anyone's guess as to the reason. Perhaps you should talk with him sometime when you're not trying to initiate sex but when you are both more relaxed -(after you're both home from work and have had dinner, perhaps?). Don't try to accuse or blame him; just let him know you were disappointed because you were looking forward to making love, and wonder if there's anything on his mind. Then see what he says.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): It's one weekend in a long relationship.
Once in a while this stuff happens.
Don't read to much into it.
Do something for him to make him feel macho. Dirty texts or something during the work-week. "I was thinking about last weekend... my panties are so wet" kind of stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Try durex performa makes you last a lot longer. If he says no to sex give him a footjob, i like it
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