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writes:i told him i liked himhe said he liked mei asked him if we were together and he said he dosent class girlfriends as girlfriends he classes them as friends... he said for eg. two friends could get married some friends dontim so confused because he wont give me a straight answer to if we are going out or not!!... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): tell him your tired of waiting and if he doesnt give you an answer it means he doesnt care as much for you as you do him and as he tells you he does!!it could be that he likes you and someone else at the same time and if it is then he isnt worth it if he doesnt think you come first or are better you just have to trust what your heart says!
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reader, deeps  +, writes (10 February 2007):
Look, all relationships are need-based. The sooner you realise that fact, the easier it will be to crack this issue for good, with this guy or the legion of men that may follow in the decades to come.
All of us need something, be it security, love, understanding, a mother-like figure or simply someone to suck out energy from.
Perhaps the guy who is taking u on this emotional roller-coaster is struggling with a bunch of questions, is addressing his own issues and basically needs to figure what he wants out of life and the relationship with you. Which is why he keeps you hanging. Trust me, to be successful in any relationship, you need to be emotionally strong to withstand the rigors of the emotional turmoil relationships take on the human spirit. Emotional warmth and soulmate nonsense is all wonderful, but it comes at a steep price, most of us find it ok to pay that price, but we need sometimes to pause and think, is it worth it. Should we instead sublime our thoughts and actions into something to make ourselves better humanbeings so in the future we could attract a better class of similar thinking beings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): Then ask him whether he counts you as a friend romantically. If he says yes then you can count that as being his girlfriend.
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