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He went out to get something and came back hurling aggression and abuse. Why would he do this?

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Question - (9 June 2018) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2018)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Part of me died in the face of anger and hostility!

Has anyone ever known a man to have a perfectly pleasant day only to go out to the shop to get something and come back hurling aggression and abuse?

I'm struggling to even remember how it started apart from that because Ive gone blank.

I can remember the final parting moments but not the beginning and yes I was sober.

I know I was angry at the aggression and some door in my mind just shut.

And now I cant remember the starting moments.

Just blank.

Just feeling numb.

No more logic left except I felt I'd been lulled into a false sense of security.

And angry to be conned like that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2018):

Just a guess, but it sounds like a drug transaction gone wrong! Sometimes traffic will get to you; but you've got to have anger-issues to begin with, to carry that much anger and hostility with you for any prolonged period of time.

Your man has a growing issue with anger; and maybe he's under a lot of pressure. These days politics, the news, work, and a nasty public is getting to people. Ask him to calm himself before coming home. He should walk it out, take a cool shower, or just close the windows in his car and scream.

He has to work on his pressure-valve. Best he start exercising, getting more sleep, and depressurizing after work; if he's under too much stress. Send him too his doctor; if he looses it and comes at you. It sounds like it's something getting out of control. Nip it at the bud!

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A male reader, sissygurl4fun United States +, writes (10 June 2018):

sissygurl4fun agony auntdrug, gambling addiction or he's cheating. maybe he thought he had a stash out there and it was gone

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