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writes:4 years ago, I met this awesome man, who's all loving and caring, but the problem is, he came in the wrong time. At that time i was already with another man, I had to choose between him and the man i was currently with. Unfortunately, i made the wrong decision. I chose the wrong person. All i did was just push the man who really loved me away, I pushed him really hard. I changed my numbers, broke his heart, texted him to never call me again and to forget about me. A year later i broke up with the man i was with, the man i chose instead of the man who loved me. Now, 2 years later, i'm single, I really regret pushing the man who loved me away, i'm full of regret that i had chosen the wrong person. I tried calling him, texting him but i didn't get any response. I know i broke his heart so bad. i think about him everyday. I want him back now. I changed. Im different, i will treat him right this time. I need him to give me a second chance. What can I do? please help.4 years ago, I met this awesome man, who's all loving and caring, but the problem is, he came in the wrong time. At that time i was already with another man, I had to choose between him and the man i was currently with. Unfortunately, i made the wrong decision. I chose the wrong person. All i did was just push the man who really loved me away, I pushed him really hard. I changed my numbers, broke his heart, texted him to never call me again and to forget about me. A year later i broke up with the man i was with, the man i chose instead of the man who loved me. Now, 2 years later, i'm single, I really regret pushing the man who loved me away, i'm full of regret that i had chosen the wrong person. I tried calling him, texting him but i didn't get any response. I know i broke his heart so bad. i think about him everyday. I want him back now. I changed. I'm different, i will treat him right this time. I need him to give me a second chance. What can I do? please help.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (17 November 2013):
 He possibly is with someone else and when you call or text he was at the movies seeing the best man. I just saying it's a thought. I feel like you can get back in there if you get his attention again you know attract him if thats what you did in the beginning. I would also like the others mention message him on Facebook or Twitter. If he is 38 degrees hot It will take some time to cool him off and alot of explaining too. If it took a year to break up why after 3 or 4 years are you trying to get back in it been a long time. It may have been smoother transition and ride if it had been soon. if you and when you call leave a message thats nice sweet explaining what happen. If you text do the same as if calling or voice-mailing. I been hurt most people have I think as you mentioned people change and you may treat him right. The issue is getting trust that you wont screw over him or string him along. This happen to me and my only thought was why did this person even speak to me see me or acknowledge me I hated the fact I met this person. I thought they got off on playing me and getting my emotions into it and basically having a battle for love. I was crying lol cause I thought the person was a.jokester.Just using love and lust to destroy me. I was sick after that and at.the.time.I was breaking up from my ex so the.timing was of the essence. You also have to put yourself in there shoes and see how would I be or feel if someone did to me what I did to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2013): what do you know about him now? he can be that he have a gf now or moved on, maybe he changed a number could be also. it is bad to come needy to him its not really attractive. check facebook try speak with him
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (16 November 2013):
You are missing something that should of, would of, could of been a great relationship two years ago!
I think you are missing having someone there. This guy has changed, and so have you. You need to move on and build a new life for yourself. Be single for a couple of months. Take a breath!
Life is about taking chances. It is about making those mistakes learning and growing.
You are young, STOP reliving the past.
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