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writes:Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with the most beautiful eyes, I could stare all day at him and not got bored. I've been besotted with him since May this year, and I can't stop thinking about him. I met him through a group I joined.However, a girl joined the group in September and she's so attention seeking, she cries over everything, and everyone makes a huge fuss over her. She told the guy I love that she thought he was making it up about the fact that he lost his parents when he was 5! I really dislike her. I'd say hate but it's a strong word.Anyway, her latest thing is that this guy has been bullying her! I admit that he sometimes can be a little... I dunno, sharp tongued doesn't sound right, and neither does bossy, but he never does or says anything without just cause. She complained to the head of the group, and he decided to suspend him until it was investigated. The guy has now decided that nobody wants him there (which with the exception of myself is probably true as they all take the girl's side) so he's left! We don't go to the same school we don't live in the same town. I want to be with him but I don't even know if he likes me in that way. He's been a great friend, but I want it to be more. I just don't know what to do. I couldn't bear it if I never saw him again and I know I'm going to miss him like hell. He was the one who made the group worthwile, now it's going to be awful and I wish he would come back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I WROTE THIS QUESTION
Hey, I didn't mean group as in friendship group, I meant group as in a club type thing. A cadet group actually. Twice a week! And I'm in college, lower sixth, but if you're american, then yeah highschool. That movie thing is a really good idea! I think I'm going to try it, although the prospect terrifies me, I don't even know if he likes me like this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Okay so sounds like ytour in highschool right? Great I loved high school and the great thing about this is you don't go to the same school or live in the same town but you obviously live close enough be in the same group. So yet another plus, call him tell him you want to go have a coke somewhere or a movie a movie is better. if he rejects you yes you will feel a little silly but, who care you don't go to the same school or live inthe same town so who is he going to tell. which seems silly to even care if he did but I undersatnd taht when you are in highschool reputation is everything and being reject is about the worse thing that could ever happen LOL ( It gets worse in real life Love trust me !!)Enjoy being young and silly!!! So anyway even if he comes bac to the group or even tells anyone in the group that you asked im out and he rejected you(I'm sure he won't though) Everyone thinks he's such a duesh that you can just denie it and agree with everyone else that he should leave the group. Because trying to embarrass someone who pad you compliment enough to think you were hot is apretty dueshy thing to do and he deserves to treated accordingly. Hope it helped!!!
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