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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I hurt him badly by lying to him earlier this year and after over a half a year of not talking to him, we recently start to talk again (recently meaning the last two months). We got together and naturally, our chemistry led us into a physical relationship. This continued until he expressed that he was "in love" with his ex-girlfriend and so all physical contact ended. We still continued to spend time together and it seemed like we were on our way to repairing our badly damaged relationship. He mentioned of how much I hurt him when he told me about his feelings about his ex-girlfriend. He said that "I had no idea how much I had hurt him." And I was quite surprised because this was coming from someone who could never express the way he felt about me when we were dating.We got into a scuff last night and it ended up with him hanging up the phone. Angry, I sent him this message today, late in the afternoon:"I apologize for overreacting. My response came more out of frustration than anything and wasn't necessarily directed at you. I've said I'm sorry countless times for what I did to you but no matter how sincere my apology, your anger still persists. Whether you care about me or not, I care about you a heckuva lot and if you would just prefer to forget about me completely then I'll never contact you again. I wanted nothing more than to be your friend and if I could take back everything that has happened in the last month and a half, I would because it's not worth being treated like shit. Again, I'm sorry I took advantage of your trust. Let me know if you want me gone because otherwise, I'l continue to ask for a moment of your time to salvage a relationship with someone whose life didn't deserve the pain I inflicted."And he responded: "Bye."I miss him already terribly. And he knows how he responded was cruel because he knows that I think about things far too much. How do I deal with this hurt of losing one of my closest friends a second time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Foret that jerk...let him go and be with his ex girlfriend he obviously doesn't care if he loses you are not...and I feel that you shouldn't have texted him.
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