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41-50,
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writes: i'v been engaged to someone i'v just met,we accidentally met at my freinds' partyhe was looking for a girl to marry, thats when the magic happend he loved me from the first sight, i also felt the same way ,although he wasn't my type, he told my freind that he wants to see me one more time and it happened then he decided to propose, i freaked out coz that was so fast and actually i like to get know the person well before i get involved.so i started to get know him well teeling him about me and what i hate about me and the the others as well.i even told him about my ex's and that was so stupidcoz he changed alot since then.one more thing i didn't like his family and he olso did the same thing.but i realy wanted to work things out between us i told him that i'll do my best to get along wz them.anyway i felt that we're changing from the bad to the worst i felt that m losing him so i told him what i feel about him until i felt that its not mutaul so i broke up wz him without saying a word.he tried to call me once after this but i never answer him.then i called him one more time to get back to him but he was so aggressive to me so i cut off wz him and never talk to him again.after while he talked to a freind to make up wz me but he wants me to admit that it's my fault and to talk to him first and i didn't.instead i sent him a messege telling him that he's a great guy but everything is over and now he's over me.i can't see anyone now m thinking about him every second ,i cant study,work,sleep my life is over without him. he is the perfect man in my eyes and m afraid to lose him forever.how can i get him back!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Can't you see he only wanted to become legal?
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