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writes:I have been mostly having a lovely time with my new boyfriend. We have started exploring fantasies etc and exploring our physical side. Today we went to a nice sexy shop and I bought a some nice underwear.He, however was avidly looking at pornographic books and showed me a couple of the pictures. We had an argument earlier today because he is a bit insistant about sex and perhaps we have more that I really want. I just wanted a quiet normal day doing couply things and had to cope with insecure sulks when I said very strongly that I wanted to abstain. After the sex shop incident I felt a bit sick. I can admit that I felt a bit turned on, but also nausious... I thought he may use the images when making love with me. I know this is normal and I may at some stage be comfortable to gently explore those things I don't know. My nausia is really odd, can anybody explain why this happened to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): Girl, your so.... much better than this guy!! Yes, it may be normal for a man to fantisize about being in or acting out a prono, but if his life revolves around it and your just some pawn for him to play with then i would just forget him. Making love is supposed to mean something, when two people bond their love,...doing it to show their passion for one another, not to "try out some new moves"
Who i am to say you should dump and forget him? It's what i would do, if it were me! Our comments may help but in the end it's your decision... is it more than you can handle? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): You think this is normal????? Yeah, sure it is if your man follows the society which treats women as bits of meat to be compared and measured. My advice...get out now...if your young childless and fit, and he still feels the need to check out other womens bodies hows he going to be after 4 or 5 kids and many more years of ageing, stretch marks, sagging body parts etc...You deserve better....its called respect
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reader, matron +, writes (20 May 2006):
 Hi, I think you feel your relationship is all about sex right now, i'm not knocking sex but its so much better when its spontanious and lovin and not because your partner has just looked thru a porno mag or thinking about which position he can put you in or the outfit he'd like you to wear!There is more to relationships than sex, spending days out together doing things you both enjoy (forgetting sex) going home and curling up on the sofa together and if sex happens it happens making LUST is fun, now and then, but making LOVE is so much better, try it!
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