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He wants to watch me having sex with another man! What does this say about him??

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Question - (8 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *amsproperty writes:

My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with another man. This is disgusting. Of course I won't do it. The question is, what does this indicate about a man's character, or even, future?

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Does my boyfriend's obsession for anal sex which I won't give him indicate anything I should pay special attention to?

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2008):

boo22 agony aunthi honey, a guy i used to work for was swinging with his wife and another guy,and his wife has just ran off and left with the other guy,lol. perphaps you should think about that. as for the anal thing,unless you have a clitoris up your rectum i'd steer clear. theres only fun there for him. he sounds extremely selfish. you can do so much better. good luck x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2008):

Aren't you the same woman who's being pressured for anal and also going out with a liar?

If so then seriously, move on. How many different reasons do you need to split up with this guy?

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (8 November 2008):

I think it says alot about his character. If hes willing to let you have sex with another guy, and wathc it, then it suggests he probably thinks he should be able to sleep with another female.

How would you feel about that? Probably not good id assume. And thats perfectly normal. You need to talk to your partner about this because what he wants makes him sound like he has different values to what you have.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

I think the indicators here indicate that you should trade in your boyfriend for one whose interests in the bedroom match your own!

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A male reader, fill United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2008):

this i will never undertand and im a guy! people are different, my girlfreind just finihed it after 4 years! and it makes me so depressed just to imagine her with sumone else! prehaps he trust you enough to act on it but just talk to him and tell him how you feel! only he will be able to answer your question! hope this helps.

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