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writes:my boyfriend wants to have oral sex with me, but i am scared about how i look below even though we have sex often? shud i b confident about what i look like down below?xxxxxxxxx-xxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): I was really concerned too. But, in the end my boyfriend was so desperate he asked if he could with a duvet over his head lol. I then realised how ridiculus i was being. I felt a lot more comfortable being in shaven haven though (all hair shaved off) but only because my boyfriend prefers it like that. Enjoy it. It may make you less self concious if you do it to him at the same time i.e. 69 because the focus is not so much on you then
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): i think saying guys dont care is a bit much...you make us sound like animals..hygiene is important and no one wants a mouth full of hair.
just relax and go with the flow. youve nothing to worry about.
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reader, *kez* +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Just leave it trimmed or shave.. guys dont care!!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): i know this is a question for women but i just thought a male view might be wanted.
each woman is different in size,taste etc and i know many women are self concious when i man goes ''down there'' but as long as your clean and well looked after you have no worries. some men like hair but most prefer it smooth, ask him.
if your worried and hes a good partner if you talk your fear through he should respect it and take it slow with you. honesty always helps a relantionship.
and trust me, if he knows what to do youll really enjoy yourself.
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male
reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 From a guys point of view: Forget the VEET and leave it au natural. . . or you can trim it up a little if it looks like the forest primeval. But if you start getting too fancy down there, he'll think you're a stripper or a porn star. LOL.
Trust me. . . guys don't care what it looks like. As long as it doesn't smell like a tuna processing plant, you'll be fine. LOL.
Good luck!
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female
reader, Tinkz  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I know the feeling, i was like that in the beginning too!
But for some reason men like it, a lot! To make yourself feel comfortable have a bath before hand or do what i do, use the wonderful product called VEET! if you cleanly shaven if you want to call it that, it makes you feel more comfortable and the pubic hairs hold bacteria and therefor leaves a distinct female smell! i know the hair is there fore a reason, but i haven't had any problems so far!
If you feel comfortable enough with him then there is nothing to worry about!
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male
reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (15 January 2007):
 my advice
stop worrying enjoy it.
and ask for lots more.
take care
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female
reader, cd206 +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I think so! Everyone looks different down there anyway, just like every penis is different so try and relax. I bet it's nothing he hasn't seen before!!
CD
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