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writes: hey guys,i'm 12 and in the sixth grade and i wanted you opinion on something... You see my boyfriend broke up with me last week with no reason at all!Then today my friend told him i wanted him back.So he had his friend ask me out for him and of course i said yes.But his friend also told me that he didn't want anybody to know.I thought that was weird but agreed to it. The thing i was questioning myself was did i do the right thing?I know i love him and everything but should i have really taken him back?I also don't know what to do with the relashonship.I obviously did something wrong last time.So what should i do?Thanks for your help it means a lot!
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reader, Ash.green +, writes (10 March 2006):
 One of the last things you said was "I obviously did something wrong last time". What makes you say that? I'm only a few years older than you, and I think I have a good idea of what's going on. This guy is probably shy, with a few friends, but he still doesn't want anyone to know what's going on between you two. It might be a bit hard to keep this sort of thing a secret, especially from your girlfriends. Your guy probably has something simple on his mind, like his parents.My advice: Talk to him. If he doesn't want to talk to you when he's with his friends, catch him after school. Ask him something like, 'I'm happy we're going out again, but I'm not sure why you want to keep it a secret.' If he likes you, he will explain what's going on. If it is his parents, you can't do much about that except encourage him to talk to them, explaining that it will be easier on both of you when he does it. But don't put pressure on him. It might take him a few weeks to work out what to say. If he has a younger or older brother/sister make sure you can talk to them about what's going on, but don't make it sound bitchy. Don't tell them too much and make sure he knows what you're saying. Also, don't spend more time with his brother/sister then with him.Good luck!.:AsH:.
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reader, misslady +, writes (10 March 2006):
There's definitely something fishy about that, It probably not your fault the relationship ended, but it did end for a reason. He probably has someone else right now and that's why he wants it kept secret. Your only twelve get out there find someone else. you'll eventually find the right person, but that rarely happens at twelve, maybe the two of you should just be friends. Do some secret investigating. have someone keep close eye on him and see what you can figure out.
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