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writes:There is this guy who I met last year. He's been very nice to me and intelligent. We started talking and eventually he told me how he felt for me but then I din't feel anything because he had no swag as a guy and was simply just there. It's over a year now and he has changed, his dressing and everything, but he's still the same person, very intelligent, nice and is ready to help me genuinely but the problem is he wants a genuine relationship with me, he's 21 going to 22 and I'm 18 going to 19, I don't like him that way, I'm scared I might lose a very good person but is it also wrong that he's just not my type of guy, he's kinda soft and so on. He said he's still waiting for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (10 November 2007):
 you certainly can not help how you feel, if your feelings are not there for him its not your fault. It does sound like he has got a soft spot for you, but i think you should lay all your cards on the table and tell him how you feel. tell him sooner rather than later as i feel the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Sure he might be upset, but in time he will respect that you were honest with him and did not lead him on. No its not wrong that he is not your kind of guy, we all have different types and tastes. But do tell him how you feel, and say that you would also like to stay friends if possible.
All the best x
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