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writes: I need some advice. Im 17.. I had this teacher who was no doubt the most amazing guy ive ever met..I fell in love with him and still am. He always used to treat me so differently to everyone else. Me and him could talk for hours. He left the school so he's not my teacher anymore but we still talk heaps. My feelings haven't changed and its been almost 2 years. I cant imagine being with anyone else. I haven't told him how i feel about him. Im afraid he will not feel the same even though im sure he does. I remember when we first met i thought he had feelings for me with the way he would treat me. I cant explain it. That was even before i liked him. He's 27. Do you think this is too much of an age gap? I love him so much.. And its not some stupid crush. He isn't even my teacher anymore so is it ok to take things further. How do i tell him how i fell? Plz dont think he's a creep he has never done anything to hurt me or make me feel uncomfortable. We just Straight away formed this amazing bond and i dont think i will have this again with anyone else. WHat should i do?? How do i tell him?
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reader, BeautifulDisasterxx +, writes (18 August 2006):
BeautifulDisasterxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question I understand what u guys r sayin but i feel like if i dnt tell him it will be one of those things i will regret forever and will always wonder what would have happened..In answer to bonyms question I am in contact with him he gave me all his details before leaving and asked for myne. I know alot about him and he knows alot about me. Only problem is he does have a gf but she is really rude to me and gives me dirty looks and hates us being friends. I dont know why, he said she's probably jelous. This is why i dont understand how he can still be with her,"He obviously doesnt have feelings for you".. I know it sounds that way but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Before we became good friends we would talk and he would go red and mess up his words but he would come down and sit with me and my friends at lunch and talk to me. Once we were in a classroom alone together and he told me he wanted to ask me something and touched my hand. I laughed and ask what he wanted to know, he said that i was a "cool chick" and he wanted to know if.. thats all he got to and at that point he said dont worry about it and walked out. We Didnt talk for like 2 weeks after that and when we did start to talk again it was never mentoined again.. Can you understand why i aam counfused now?
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reader, BeautifulDisasterxx +, writes (18 August 2006):
BeautifulDisasterxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand what u guys r sayin but i feel like if i dnt tell him it will be one of those things i will regret forever and will always wonder what would have happened..In answer to bonyms question I am in contact with him he gave me all his details before leaving and asked for myne. I know alot about him and he knows alot about me.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 I disagree with the idea that it may just be a fling, how can we make that assumption.
Well, its good that he is no longer your teacher, as that would create serious problems, but I do think perhaps you may have read into the situation a bit to much. First off all, you are 17 and not far off being a full blown adult so the age gap is a matter of choice, if you are happy to be with a guy who is 30 when you are 20, 40 when you re 30, 50 when you are 40 etc then thats your cup of tea. Is he married, do you know anything about him, does he have a partner? Before you can even tel lhim how you feel, and I am not suggesting that (the chouce is yours) you need to know who he is first. Tell me some more if you can, e.g. can you get in contact with him etc etc. Let me know more my dear, take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): The first thing that springs to mind is "FLING".QUOTE: " How do i tell him how i fell? "He obviously doesnt have feelings for you.You misread the situation babe, he probably favoured you then your other class mates but as you had a crush you read it to mean more. You have an amazing bond, dont spoil the friendship by making a fool out of yourself and losing him entirely as you will go crazy and be heart broken.
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