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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating this new guy for about a month. We have sbeen getting along great.and im so in love but last night he told me to leave hus house he needed space. We fought all evening about it does this mean he is having second thought. I feel like it is too soon for this Reply to this Question
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reader, slipper164 +, writes (21 June 2012):
Anonymous
I see you are a young woman using the word love after dating a guy for 1 month. Ok I'm not saying it's not possible. If this guy is telling you he needs his space I only see two things here. Either you are all over this guy and he cain't take it or he just wants play the field and he is not serious about you.The advise I would give you is
1) If you are all over this guy maybe he cain't handle a real woman if thats not the case let him chase you. Either way move on find a guy thats not going to tell you after a month he needs his space you deserve better. I wish I was 30 again your in your prime sweet heart. Don't let some jerk play with your feelings. I am sure you guys have been sleeping together to put it lightly. Probably not much sleeping going on at 30. The point is he got what he wanted from you now he wants his space.It sounds like all he wanted to do is get laid which is ok if it's mutual. It sounds like you fell in love and he didn't. Move on find someone who is deserving of your mind and body not just your body. Take Care
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): Hi there, need more info. Have you both been in each others pockets alot since you have been seeing each other? Like spending all your free time together? If so this is not healthy. He may of wanted me time and that is perfectly ok. If you mentioned that you loved him then you could of scared him enough to panick and need time to think this through and if he felt the same. Either way he wanted space and you didnt want to leave him to that and that is seen as controlling. Rain your self in a bit and leave him be for a bit and see if he gets in touch.
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