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writes:My boyfriend finally broke up with me. My actions had gotten the best of him, and he couldn't do it any more. It is now that I want him back,and it's too late he is saying..I'm going to keep trying and trying because I love him so much, I just don't know how much is too much. When should I stop? I wrote him a long letter the day after we broke up. A day after that, today, I talked to him over text and he said I read your letter I just need time to think and clear my head. What can this mean for us?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 He is putting on his thinking cap and needs more time to make a more informed decision. He could probably have made up his decision but does not want to declare it officially to you in case he may waver and reverse his first decision.
Give him more space or take a break from him.
In case he has decided to breakup, you will have to prepare for the win back strategy.
Stop texting or contacting him.
You are going about it the wrong way. If you persist in this way , you will drive him further and further away from you and make it difficult to reconcile with him.
You will have to use the reverse psychology method to win him back.
You have to break that cycle or chain reactions and reverse it into your favour.
Naturally, after a breakup, your ex expects that you would be sad, upset, and not be able to get over them.
But once your ex hears that you are happy and running around having a blast, it will hit your ex hard, making him feel as if he was not good enough for you . Instead of you not good enough for him.
Go to the link below to read up and prepare yourself for this battle.
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http://ezinearticles.com/?Does-Reverse-Psychology-Really-Work-to-Win-My-Ex-Back?-You-Bet-it-Does,-This-Will-Show-You-How!&id=3144084
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 April 2010):
It means he's either thinking, or he has made the decision to move on. I think right now he is thinking. So you have to give up total space and not contact him. He now has to come to you.
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