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He thinks it's best that we just remain friends..how can I get him to change his mind?

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Question - (11 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I know this has probably been asked many a time and i've driven my friends crazy about this but when i fall for someone i fall bad, anyway does a guy really mean it when he says 'he thinks its best we just stay friends'. i really hope i can change his mind and that he was cautious because of the fact i had a semi crush on one of his mates previously, but it was more i wanted that guy(2) then wanted to be with him like this one(1). can anyone help me with this, its driving me crazy.

thanks :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006):

I really don't believe you can change someone's mind no matter how hard you try. I truly believe that if the person has made up their mind...thats just the way it is!

Trust me, don't do anything rash, and try to smother someone because of your feelings. Cherish the fact that he is your friend. Try to keep things on that level. Pursueding him otherwise might make him run in the opposite direction. I'm sure you would be crushed if he threw the towel in on your friendship. You would just end up getting hurt. You just can't make someone love you.

Good Luck!

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (11 January 2006):

shania agony auntIf a fella says that he just wants to be friends,then that is what he means,i think you just dont want to believe it.If he changes his mind then great,but until then you would be better off looking else where.

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