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writes:I fear I am becoming what I hate. I am always feeling jealous, but I dont know if that means I'm a jealous person. I feel worried often and anxious about my relationship with my bf. I get upset if my bf is too tired to see me or is seeing his friends. I wouldn't say i'm controlling though, because I don't control what he does as I never tell him my feelings about things i dont like him doing. I am too afraid to tell my bf how I feel because I fear I will drive him away. I don't feel I have the right to feel like this. I think it's wrong. But i don't know how to deal with it all. It's driving me crazy. He thinks I am such a happy and laid back person is ok with a lot of thigns, when really I am not. I'm afraid if i tell him he will dump me because he will see me as a insecure and jealous gf. I've heard him talk about his friend's ex's and how they were like that to his friends and how wrong it was. So i'm afraid he will dump me. How do i deal with these problems?
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reader, Emmaxbaby  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 I think you should be open with him, tell him the truth about your feelings and explain you dont know why you have these feelings and its upseting you, as 'Vegasgirl15' said, if hes a good boyfriend he will listen. He should respect your feelings if he truely cares
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): You should just tell him how you feel . If he dumps you maybe your better off . If he makes you feel so bad all the time you have to tell him. It's not worth having to feel that way . If he's a good boyfriend then he'll listen, understand and find a way to make you feel better. I know how you feel I've been through that before . I told him how I felt and we talked about it and I felt much better . Maybe you should do the same.I hope that this helped !I wish you the very best :) good luck
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