He thinks he is a sexual person, and wants to have more sex with me, so why cant he?

A female age 36-40, *ovemeright11 writes:

Hello I and my boyfriend have been together for 9months and we have a really good relationship but sexually sometimes it’s hard. One of the things my boyfriend said to me when we first got together was that he always thought he was a very sexual person until he met me, meaning (which he told me) that he used to masturbate 2 to 3 times a day when he was single almost every day, he told me he would even masturbate when he could not actually cum but still did it cause he was just so horny all the time and bored also I guess. So basically he is kind of surprised that we have an issue sexually sometimes because he wishes he could actually have sex with me as much as he masturbated but realizes he can’t and that all the sudden he does not want it as much. I am a very sexual person to the T and my hormones are all over the place most the time. I want actually would love sex 2 to 3 times a day cause I can masturbate that much and also dish out sex that much depending on if I have someone or not. So basically I am just curious, why a man who feels that he is so sexual and wants to give me all the sex we can barely handle can’t? Why was he able to masturbate so much but not able to pleasure me that much when I know he wants too? I know masturbation and sex have a bit of a different mindset when it comes to them but I am just curious if anyone as an answer to this? I love him and won’t leave him just cause he can only give it to me once or twice a week he makes up for it all with who he is but if you guys have any idea what could be the issue let me know thank you very much in advance.

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