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writes: Hey, I've wrote before about a boy that i've been kind of seeing for just over two months now, although we're not officially an item. He's 19, i'm 18. He texts me every day just to generally chat and we've been out a few times together since we met. The thing is, I'm not sure where things are going! I really like him and he's told me he likes me, but things are moving really slow and I'm not sure where I stand in this relationship. I'm so confused, I want to be with him, but I dont know what he wants out of this. I know I should just talk to him about it, but this early on in the relationship, I'm scared he'll freak out. Any ideas?
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reader, bridget +, writes (9 March 2006):
 Hey there AstraeKiana, Here is some advice that I think you should take into consideration...
I think this boy is genually interested in you, He obviously enjoys your company and judging by the way you are explaining things, I guess he really likes you too..
You sound like me when I first met my boyfriend!! We were both mad about each other but one was to scared to ask the other what was happening and we to were only on our second date..
But I am living proof that when you like the person and you spend some quality time together, Its just enough to know what will happen..
And In Individuals the one big fear which most of us (if not all) have in common is "Rejection".. We are scared of loosing what we never had..
I think one of you should take the lead and in this case, (pressuming you really like this boy) you should try..
Maybe invite him to lunch one day that you both decide to meet up and explain that you really enjoy his company and that you would like to take things into perspective and have a go at a relationship..
If its meant to be he will oblige (maybe take him a couple of days to think things through) and if he doesnt well then theres plenty more fish in the sea..
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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