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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My exboyfriend txt me every day. We txt talk for hours at a time. He tells me he still loves me and he made a big mistake leaving. He says he wants to get back together but yet he never makes an effort to come and see me. He lives only 35 miles away. He tells me he wants to fix things first before so he can move me down there with him and get married. Im still very much in love with this man and I would do it in a second. I don't know if i should just move on or wait for him.
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reader, purple_girl05  +, writes (10 July 2009):
My current boyfriend does the same thing he tells me he loves me and texts me all the time but I only see him once a month and he doesn't even live 35 minutes away.
Sadly there's not a lot that I can say to help
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (10 July 2009):
I have to agree with the polls on this one if he really wanted you he would make a effort i dont see what visiting you for a few days has to do with building a life and getting married he is probably keeping you as back up if things dont work out in another relationship and you are just sitting around like a lump on a log just letting him treat you badly you need to stop being so passive go up there and find out what is really going on i bet you will find that he has a chick on the side and you waiting in the wings for when he decides to settle down get your butt up there and demand answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Why don't you try not texting him or answering his texts and make him work a little harder for access to you. Like maybe a phone call or a visit. Hell he could be texting 5 other women while he is texting you....this is the lowest level of effort by a man. Don't understand that if he is your ex, why all of a sudden is he saying he wants to get married and set things up before you come down? Sounds suspicious to me.....otherwise he would be beating down your door and asking you in person to come back, and he would work out what ever issues caused the break up in the first place.
No one can tell you what you should do here, just use your common sense.
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