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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for two years and everything is going great except we don't seem to talk as much as we used to and recently its getting me down. we're currently in a long distance relationship as we are both at uni but while he seems to only talk to me for a couple of minutes before he runs out of things to say he tells me he was up until early hours talking on the net to other people.i dont feel like hes interested in me anymore or am i just overdramatising?
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reader, Neo +, writes (15 January 2006):
I wouldn't worry too much because when guys have a girl and they talk to other people more they are most likely talking about their relashonships, the only thing you have to worry about is if he's talking about the relashonship in a bad way like breaking up, just talk to him about it and tell him that you want to talk to him more.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I am unclear as to whether he is chatting to people online when you are actually together or apart. If it is when you are together that is bad, worse than if you are actually apart while he was doing the net thing. If it is when you are together then he needs to be reminded that the time you have physically together is actually all the more special now that there is less of it.
If it is when you are apart he is chatting online allot then it seems to me he is just lonely and it isn't to do with a lack of interest in you more to do with him getting 'out of the groove' when you are together. In this case I would prehaps suggest you set aside a lengthy period of time to spend together to refresh the relationship. Do you communicate allot when you are physically apart on the phone for example? If you don't maybe a little more of this kind of communication would help keep things flowing.
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