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writes:We had a first date/meeting set up for Wednesday. We're both pretty busy and hardly get to chat, let alone set a time to get together. Wednesday comes and I hear... nothing! I then realise he was last online on Monday evening, which meant he hadn't been on for 3 days during then. The week went by... still nothing. Last night I sent a sort of chilled on the exterior (but angry) email about how disappointed I was in the person I thought he was. Tonight he sends something along the lines of "Ahhhhh!!! I messed up. I;m so so sorry! Sorry sorry sorry... (x5)... I couldn't access internet for a.." I didn't log on and see all of it. Then another few minutes later, "What an impressive I must've given you -_- Good job on my part :( " Does this guy deserve another chance? Is he realy sincere? What should it take to forgive a stand-uper? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's a German intern and apparetly some mix up came up with his visa. And apparently work was hectic too. Legit enough?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (12 August 2014):
 Iyou feel like you got disrespected(boy I hate that word) then I guess you have evy right to tell the dude where to go. owever, if you feel there was a mix up and it was an innocent error on his part then give it another go. It really all depend on how this whole thing made you feel.Who cares how he feels or f he 'deserves anything' No one 'deserves' to have a chanceo makeyou feel stupid twice. I dont get the sense that you think there even might have been a misunderstanding. ergo, you're convinced he purposely stood you up(for whatever reason) dump the dude.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (12 August 2014):
 Wave bye bye girl.... aint nothin to see here!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 August 2014):
 I assume that the date was set up in person but you had yet to call to confirm a time. He did not exactly stand you up because maybe he's waiting for you to suggest a time. I don't know why you don't call each other, but a lot of people are afraid of giving out numbers until they know that the first date is going well. Some people have no faith in dating because of experiences with flaky people. I would forgive a standupper if he could convince you why he wants to see you, why he wants to give it a try in relationships. He may not know if this thing is real so talking on the phone for a few times would help. You can learn a little bit about each other and gauge his interest then.
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