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writes:my bf says that he luvs me but often times he makes me feel like im just a roommate. We r hardly intimate or there is nothing that feels like luv coming from his end. he says he luvs me,but to me his actions show me differently. should i leave or should i stay?
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reader, Cozie +, writes (15 December 2009):
Cozie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEverything that has been said is true and i no it, it just just facing the truth.I got to say that the truth really hurts, but it is what it is.
I guess that i didn't want to face things especially when you love someone and want to believe that you are getting the same in return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): He's no longer in love but is too gutless to end the relationship for whatever reason. Maybe you should do it for him, because as long as you're happy to stick around putting up with being taken for granted, he'll keep doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Stop being his roommate, start being out of the house after work and in the evenings, get dressed up, don't tell him where you are going and leave for three hours maybe four, let him wonder what the hell it is you are doing...even if you have to go to a movie to get out of the house or go walk around the mall, let him think you are out and about having a life....
In fact, get a life of your own. You aren't his wife, you are his girlfriend and being a girlfriend can be a trap. He isn't really committed to you but you are putting your life on hold as if he was. Keep your heart open to other men, flirt, go on coffee dates and maybe you will meet someone who actually wants some romance....at the very least you will make him sit up and take notice and stop taking you for granted and maybe he will realize that you might just get snapped up by some other guy.
Try it let me know what happens.
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