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writes:Well..I've been dating this guy for almost 3 yrs and we are engaged. I found out recently that he slept with his step-sister years ago. They've have always seemed really close and I never thought nothing of it. I've caught him looking at her behind before and when she sees him she'll run up and jump into his arms. I used to tell myself I was crazy, because they are just close but now I am kinda freaked out. What should I do? If you have any advice please let me know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou see, I know for a fact they slept together because he is the one who told me. I love him with all my heart and he keeps saying that was before he got saved and met the Lord. I think he may just be using this as a cover up. I just have no clue how to handle this. It just eats at me all the time and i find it gross..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): (If you are very sure the rumor is true then) her being around is just like any other girl he might have slept with continuing to be close by his side and in your face..
He'll use the fact that she's his step-sister to defend her right to stay very associated with him, and it will work because you can't really go and split family of any sort up, if they want to keep in communication or do things together. So,..the only thing left to do without torturing yourself is to call off any wedding plans or thoughts for the future and ditch him. Whoever has to live with him will have to suffer that same torture of knowing she's always around, because they won't be able to stop her from coming around either. He'll always use the step-sister/family thing as an excuse and reason for her being close with him and hanging around. If you think you can keep her away from him, good luck, but then he'll probably just go behind your back anyway, if you see he still has the hots for her.
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