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He slept with his ex. Should I dump him?

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Question - (29 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My new boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex girlfriend..should i countinue the relationship? i dont really know him well enough, but i like him..

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (29 January 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI am reading this a little diff to the poster below and have not taken it that he actually cheated on you with his ex, ..but simply that he slept with her whilst he was with her.

If it was a case of cheating, I'd bail now whilst the feelings are not high. If that is something he did in a prior relationship, then it is up to you how you feel about being with someone sexually active.

There will come a point tho where most prospective partners have been there done that, so i don't personally feel sex whilst with an ex is something you want to rule peope out because of, or you will end up ruling out most people sooner or later.

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A female reader, Lexie88 Australia +, writes (29 January 2010):

Lexie88 agony auntBy continuing the relationship all you will be telling him is that it's ok to sleep with other people while he's with you. How will that make you feel?

If you continue you can be sure that there won't be any respect in the relationship...and it wil probably go nowhere in the end.

Please don't tolerate this sort of behaviour from anyone. You are worth more than this and you need a guy who knows this and will treat you better.

Good luck :)

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