He seems to think I'm his girlfriend! How do I handle this?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hey everyone...there is this boy who likes me, i know so because he told me that he loves me and that he wants to date me.well i have been single for over a year now and i am ready for a relationship.but the problem is i dont find him sexually attractive at all.he is really a sweet guy and he is nice to me but i must admit that i don't feel the same way for him.so i told him to give me time to think about the whole thing,i took two months to think it over,i was hoping that it would change somehow but nothing changed (i still felt nothing for him).so i told him that me and him couldn't work out. because i didn't want to string him along,i am really not good at pretending to love someone.he told me that it was ok and that we should still remain friends.So the reason why i am writing this is that it has been four months and he is behaving as if i am his girlfriend.he actually calls me "girlfriend ",he expects me to be have like am his girlfriend.he even asks me to spend nights at his place which i have never done and don't dream of doing anytime.He just doesn't seem to get or maybe thinks i am playing hard to get,i just don't know.he is irritating me now and i don't like it.Please i need advive on how to handle him because right now i feel liking blowing out.

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