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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hiya Ok so I met a guy whos 17 on holiday in August and we have been txting alot and seein each other occasionaly but the thing is he lives in yorkshire which is 4 hrs away from me. Its nt too bad as I hav a lot of family there and go up often. But the problem is I feel very strongly about this guy and I seem to be the one who makes the most effort bt when we're together he acts as though we're going out and his friends made it out as though he liked me. Since I last saw him we only spoke very little after which was suprising because we had a good time, the way he acted was as though he really liked me. But since then I hav talked him a little but have text him 2 weeks ago and no replie then I rang as I was up in yorkshire bt I wnted appologize for a phone call I made when I was drunk. I couldnt gt myself to do it as I hadnt heard from him properly so I asked my friend to pretend to be me and call him (shes lovely and I kno im a freek for asking her lol) anyway she didnt make it seem like he was being wierd or off with me and he said tht he was sorry for nt replying to my previous txts due to having no credit. He then said he would txt me as soon as he got some this was 2 weeks ago, little bit worried (even though one time he had no cred for 6 weeks n then after tht everythin was ok again plus he does seem to be a genuin guy)Sooo the thing is I really miss talkin to him and want to hear from him before valentines day as I dnt wnt to be alone yet again and spend it with someone I think im begining to fall in love with. I dont wnt to txt him again nd seem desperate but im scared tht he wnt contact me. Im also kind of scared tht he may have found someone else or has just gone off me ]= Any help on this would be dandy...
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (12 January 2008):
I knew a guy like this. I would make all the effort to meet up, but when we did, he was always so nice and flirty and caring. But he would never text me or email or anything at all. Lame, isn't it!
I dunno. I would either make a move next time he does contact you, and make it official. Then he might actually make an effort! Just dont appear desperate and clingy! xx
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