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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years now. i am 20 he is 24, recently he seems to be losing interest in me. We rarely have sex, he seems to prefer chilling on his own in the evening or going out with his friends, I have always encouraged him to go out with friends when he wants to, i dont want to stop him, and i go out with my friends occasionally! But he just seems to be less excited to be around me, he is always saying i annoy him, im moody, and that i argue with him. (We bicker but rarely have BIG fights and sometimes I am in the wrong, sometimes he is in the wrong)He used to be so loving and we used to have such a laugh when we hung out together, now he seems to be bored and quiet when we are doing nothing in particular, he only seems happy again when we are on holiday or having a big night out with friends etc...I have told him how i feel but he just says its up to me whether we stay together and he loves me. I feel his actions speak louder than words...I am confused and dont know where i stand anymore. He blows hot and cold. Please help, I love him and i dont know what i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): If you really love him and you want to see what's up... Make him pursue you more. Show him that you're desirable to other men and that he's not the center of your world (even though he might be secretly). After 2 years, why not give it another try? Eventually if it doesn't work out then yes, break it off, but don't just shun a second chance. Make him want you!
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 He wants to break up but doesn't have the balls to do it himself. he's giving you hints to do it..so he can take the easy way out. You guys are both so very young, and it's not that he doesn't love you. He wants to see what's out there and not be committed at such a young age.
I say break it up when him. Obviously he's not going to change, and you deserve someone new who will give you the love and attention you deserve.
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