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writes: I'm a 16 year old gay male and I really like this other lad. We met of the internet 2 days ago and we like all the same things. He seems interested, he tells me that he thinks I'm hot and that he would like to meet up with me. He seemed reluctant to giving me his number but did because he said he liked me. Now I'm getting mixed signals from him. I can't tell if he likes me or not and I don't know if he knows that I would like to go out with him. What should I do?
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reader, unknown_emo +, writes (19 February 2006):
unknown_emo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx i already got pics of him n i really do trust him he's 17 so he's only a bit older i can tell he's genuine i jus can't tell if he is truley intersted or jus flirting wiv me for the sake of it
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (19 February 2006):
 Be careful, you have had an internet chat but that is all, some people pretend to be someone they are not so check him out further.
Ask him to download you a photo of himself and if you really think he is genuine then meet in a public place like a pub and get one of your mates to sit at the bar until you give him the indication that you are fine and comfortable with this bloke.
Do not go anywhere with him after the pub, if you like him make another date.
It does sound like he likes you, is he the same age?
If you really want to go ahead and meet him then e-mail him and ask for photo, suggest meeting date, time and venue, put in place the safety net and go for it, but heed my warnings this will keep you safe, if he is not who he says he is and you find out he has lied about anything, his looks his age what ever then pull out of the situation immidiatly.
Good luck but be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): maybe he's just scared!! get to know each other a bit better on-line first, and worry about the rest later. Give it time!! good luck
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