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writes:So, heres the deal. Over summer last year in 08 I met this guy from a friend of mine. He is I think the same age as me or a little older. We talked for about a week. He lives up north. We hit it off, and I really liked him. We had so much in common, and flirted 24/7. I stayed up till 2-3 in the morning just to talk to him. He made me smile, laugh, and be happy all the time, (literally). Now, I havent talked to him since this day. I told him how I felt about him and he told me he liked me too but we couldn't go out becuz he isnt good with long distance relationships, and hes addicted to sex so he doesnt want to hurt me. I sort have gotten over him, but now I just can't stop thinking about it. I got so close to him... :[ I want to cry. One night I almost started crying over him alone in my room. I really need help. :[
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reader, mirror of twilight  +, writes (6 April 2009):
I had this situation with a guy who I'd known for 4 days... and that was about how long it took me to get over him. He seemed so perfect, but in the end he discovered 1 thing he didn't like about me and told me to forget it.Obviously that means he's not for you. If he's capable of telling you no on that, it means he doesn't care enough. At least that wouldn't be enough for me. I hate it when relationships end, but I've learned this on my own skin a couple times... never chase a guy. He has a good reason if he doesn't want a relationship and if you force it, the most you can get is some sex before you break up anyways.Forgive my ranting, I'm in chaos myself....Another experience I've had is this: I waited for a guy's return for almost a year, and when he finally returned, I found out he wasn't so great. You're probably idealizing him, remembering him as something he is not. Would a man of your dreams ever tell you to go away? Hardly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell ok first it was a little more than one week. and thanks fer being an ass. i do have friends jesus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): U knew him for a week?! Get some help girl cause ur too young to be in love with a sex addicted teenager. Move on. Get involved in some activities. Get some friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): you only knew this boy for a week so I don't think a year later it's normal that you'd be crying over him so I'm thinking you are maybe upset about something else? Are you having trouble meeting boys at school or are you arguing with your parents about something? I don't think this is about a boy you met a year ago that you don't know.
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