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writes: dear cupid,last week, i met this guy in my history class at college. he's 22, and i'm about to turn 19. he's the one who introduced himself first, and then, he asked me for my number. it couldn't have been five minutes before he texted me, and we talked for a pretty long time. we continued texting throughout the day, and he was being really sweet and flirty--calling me cute and saying that he was excited about meeting me. we have a lot in common, too--we both love music, we both play guitar and write songs, we both work with youth groups (he's an actual youth pastor, and i'm a youth sponsor), we both love God, we both hate math...you get the idea. we ended up making plans to hang out so that we could talk and get to know each other better, but never did. i didn't hear from him all weekend long--up until late sunday night, when he barely talked. we hardly talked at all on monday, either, and tuesday, we didn't talk at all. i saw him in class today, and even though he looked happy to see me, he only said, like, four words to me. i want to figure out what's going on, but i don't want to come across as being needy or clingy or weird or anything like that. is it stupid for me to keep trying to talk to him??? does he like me??? or is he just playing games??? and what should i do??? HELP!!!~confused~
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Same thing happened to me... In my case, we didn't have lots in common (he was 16 years older than me). Perhaps this guy wanted a girl with different interests, so don't blame it on yourself. Sometimes it's hard to admit the guy's not into you when you're head over heels, but if you go over your conversations, you'll see he was only interested in a girl like you, not necessarily you. But hey, it's his loss, not yours. I'm sure you've got plenty to offer and he didn't see it. That's not a guy you deserve. Be patient, there's a guy out there who will deserve you (and viceversa, hehe).
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